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Monday, February 14, 2011
Perfect two So like, I was thinking before, is it good or important to have high standards in a partner? Like, is it good to want a lot of qualities in someone?
I remember I used to have like HIGH and I mean HIGH standards in a guy, oh man I was crazy back then! These were basically all the things I wanted in a guy: 1) He HAD to play the piano 2) Had to be a half-cast or some sort 3) Had to have good fashion sense 4) Good hair 5) Buff yet not too buff 6) Danced 7) Good singer 8) Can compose, so that he'd write a song for my birthday or valentines 9) Not those sporty type of guys Yeah, that was what I wanted in a guy. But now, when I think about it, a guy like that probably doesn't even exist x) What's the real point in having so much qualities in a partner? Are you actually gonna have more feelings towards them? Isn't love about having feelings towards someone and wanting to be with them for the rest of your life? And not what they have in qualities? If the most important thing about finding a partner is their qualities, then that'll just be like shopping, and it won't be that special anymore It pisses me off when people have high standards in a partner. I mean, you're never gonna meet someone that's gonna be up to your standards, even if you did, you'd probably be dreaming. & when you find that special someone, they're probably not gonna have any of the qualities you want them to have To me, I think that the most important thing about love is meeting someone you feel a special connection with, someone you can trust and spend the rest of your life with them (but then again, what the hell do I know about love? I've never fallen in love before, if I did, I'd be with that person right now) So now, I don't expect anything in a guy, I'm just gonna wait for someone special out there that I'm gonna enjoy being with =) Just not now though, cos I have better things to fulfill right now xD that was a bit, corny  |